Tuesday, November 01, 2011
Friday, October 28, 2011
Nokia needs to listen to its customers more closely....
Sunday, October 16, 2011
Social media, smoking and Bhutan
"At present, we are stealing the future, selling it in the present, and calling it GDP." - Paul Hawken.
Soon after the demise of his father, the term "gross national happiness" (GNH) was coined in 1972 by then Bhutan's King Jigme Singye Wangchuck. He used the phrase to signal his commitment to building an economy that would serve Bhutan's unique culture based on Buddhist spiritual values. At first offered as a casual, offhand remark, the concept was taken seriously.
"GNH" was designed in an attempt to define an indicator that measures quality of life or social progress in more holistic and psychological terms than only the economic indicator of gross domestic product (GDP). However, Critics state that because GNH depends on a series of subjective judgments about well-being, governments may be able to define GNH in a way that suits their interests.
And that is exactly what seems to have happened to Bhutan in recent times. Did you know that in Bhutan it is illegal to store tobacco at home and sniffer dogs are routinely brought in, where suspicion exists, to check whether you do in fact have tobacco at home?
Recenty a Buddhist monk was jailed for possessing $3 worth of tobacco at home. Holding a carton of 200 cigarettes is a jailable offence in Bhutan.
Earlier this year, an upset Kinley Tshering, then a media consultant in Bhutan's capital, Thimphu, discussed with friends over drinks the jailing of a Buddhist monk. He decided to form a Facebook page, a digital protest unheard of in this Himalayan kingdom. Soon the page had thousands of followers.
"Facebook was important. It opened the floodgates for open criticism of the government," said opposition leader Tshering Tobgay. "People feel the need to be more vocal. Only two years ago, criticism - constructive or not - was quite anonymous."
"There are a lot of speeches about GNH. It sounds like we are doing a lot," said Tashi Choden, a senior researcher at the Centre for Bhutan Studies in Thimphu. "But there is a different reality on the ground. The youth are increasingly alienated. We could lose what we have if we are not careful."
“The following election (in 2013) is going to be fascinating,” stated Francoise Pommaret, a French anthropologist and historian that has resided in Bhutan for 3 decades. “I’ve no clue what’s going to happen, but you will find profound social changes. Our leaders will need to listen to a different generation.”
And right there, in the forefront, is social media pushing change in this remote Himalayan kingdom.
Labels: Bhutan, Facebook, Gross national Happiness, Social Media
Saturday, October 08, 2011
Love of Flying
By the late 1950s, Air India started phasing out their propeller driven Super Constellation aircraft and by 1960 or so had become an all jet fleet; the aircraft they opted for was the super sleek Boeing 707. In those days, our flat at Warden Road in Bombay looked out on a field where cows grazed. Believe it or not, we once saw a Boeing 707 taking off and the cows, unfamiliar with the sound of a jet engine, stampeded hysterically! I longed for jet travel but there seemed to be one major problem - Air India flew international and I had no chance of getting on such a flight.
Many years later, I distinctly remember that I was in the library of a club in Pachmarhi, where we had gone on holiday. I was flipping through a magazine and suddenly an Indian Airlines ad leaped out at me. It announced, with great fanfare, that the airline was offering jet fights! This caught my imagination and took my breath away. Jet! Something new! (50 years + later, I can still see that ad in my mind's eye.) Here was my chance!
Monday, October 25, 2010
Discussions of murder with a tea stall owner............
I woke up depressed this morning.
Tuesday, September 06, 2005
The heartwarming story of Karma Bhutia
Part 3
Karma soon settled down to life at the school.
Having been used to hardships, school was a luxury! It felt great to lay down in the soft eiderdown mattress. The food was great! Others complained about every little thing they could think of but not Karma, no sir! He felt he was living in the lap of luxury.
Karma had always been intelligent. He learned quixkly, instinctively, but never showed that bright spark. Something told him to keep to himself; to keep in the background; to never show his brilliance.
His grades were always above average and there was no cause for complaint. His teachers, however, always felt that there an aloofness about him..............a remoteness that they couldn't understand. Oh, he was friendly enough, all right. And eager to please. But beneath the veneer, they sensed a strange indifference. They couldn't understand it.
Karma's needs were taken care of by the Government Of Sikkim. His fees, boarding and lodging were paid punctually. He even received a small amount of pocket money every month. He hid the money in a little tin, looking forward to the day when he would return to Sikkim and buy his beloved sister a lovely dress with it.
The days turned into weeks and the weeks turned into months. Soon he was in the ninth standard.
This was an age when boys started getting interested in girls and puppy love grew and flourished in the senior school; when a girl would give a guy a sly look and a smile that would devastate him for the rest of the week!
It was the time of passing secret chits to one another......... of "I love you" messages that met with less than a fifty-percent rate of success and left many a little lad depressed and moping.
It was an age when boys compared notes about their private parts and the size of various girls public parts.
It was a time of acne and pimples and cigarettes smoked on the sly, more to impress the fair maiden than for pleasure.
It was a time for all sorts of ailments, imagined or real.
It was a time of growing up.
And in the midst of all this chaos, our Karma sailed serenely on, blissfully unaware of the world around him. In his mind's eye the only two women he saw were his mother and his sister.
In his mind's eye, he would see his mother fussing around their little house, coping as best as she could with the household chores as well as the task of bringing up a family.
And in a completely different setting, he would see his sister alone, scared, unsure of herself, fending for herself against a drunken father; fighting off hunger as best as she could................
There was no place in his heart for puppy love; there was no time to get infatuated with a girl based on the momentary glance she gave him; there was no time for him to enjoy his childhood. In his heart he was a little man, in a hurry to grow up. Waiting to go back to Sikkim to rescue his beloved sister.
There were many matrons in the school............mother-figures that oozed love and kindness. But Karma's heart was hard. No one could take his mother's place.
The teachers noted that Karma never smiled or laughed. They would discuss it in the staff room. "He's a strange little fellow!" they'd tell each other. "I wonder what goes on in that head of his", they'd say. They analysed his shortcomings - both real and imaginary - to the hilt.
What they never realised was that, more importantly, Karma never cried.
He bottled all his emotions within him; he had a "mask" on at all times. No one could lay claim to the 'real' Karma.
That mask was to stay on till a fateful day when it would be suddenly ripped off.....................
That day came unexpectedly, like all fateful events do.
It was a weekend.
The boarders were allowed to go into the city of Kalimpong.
However Karma had never shown any interest in going into Kalimpong. He would spend such days alone, by himself in the school campus.
This particular weekend was no different. He wandered aimlessly around the school and, inexplicably, found himself in the school's sick bay. Why he went there he cannot recall to this day. There was nothing there that beckoned to him. But there he proceeded and found, to his astonishment, a teacher writhing in pain. She was moaning and appeared delirous.
Astonishingly, there was no nurse present.
Karma rushed to her side and felt her forehead. It was very hot!
He remembered that when he used to get a fever, his mother used to rip some old cloth, dip it into cold water and apply it to the forehead. He rushed to locate an old rag, found it, and dipped it in cold water. He applied it to the teacher's forehead.
"Thank you" the lady murmured, faintly.
Karma sat for the next several hours nursing the teacher. She alternated between bouts of feverishness and normalcy.
At 6 p.m. the nurse appeared. She shamefacedly admited that she had some urgent errand in the city and had gone leaving the patient alone to fend for herself.
A cold rage welled inside Karma but he didn't show it.
He would make it a point to ensure that he was at the teacher's side as often as possible so that she could get the best possible care. He was back at the infirmary the next morning after breakfast. The teacher appeared more lucid and in much better shape.
"Thank you, Karma, for having taken care of me yesterday" said the teacher smiling.
"Oh it was nothing, Mrs. Grey" the boy replied.
He spent the whole Sunday with her. He asked her about her family and she told him that she was British; that her husband had been a fighter pilot during the Second World War. "Flew Spitfires, he did" she said proudly. He gathered that Squadron Leader Grey had died in combat, leaving her behind with two children to take care of. She had struggled to make both ends meet to take care of the family till they had grown up. Her son got a job and moved out to set up his own establishment. Her daughter got married. That's when she had seen an advertisement in a London newspaper for a vacancy in India. "I have never been away from England" she thought to herself. "It may be exciting to see what is out there". So she applied for the position, had been interviewed and selected and here she was, albeit in not too good health at the moment.
"What about you, Karma. Tell me about yourself" she said.
Automatically his guard went up. However, when he looked into her eyes, he saw a bottomless pool of compassion. The words stuck in his throat and to his horror he heard himself sobbing. Suddenly he was crying uncontrollably. Mrs. Grey hugged him to her breast andlet him cry. He wept for nearly an hour. When he stopped, he felt much better.........relieved.
"Tell me about your llife" Mrs. Grey asked anew, and he started to eagerly tell her all about his mother and his sister and his life in Sikkim.
They spent the whole day talking and when he left her, reluctantly, in the evening, he felt that he had found a mother in her.
Tuesday, August 30, 2005
Travails of a married man - Part 3
A fictional story by Prakash Subbarao (Prakash@3xus.com)
You’ve read parts I and II of this story, right? If you haven’t, you need to catch up, dude. It’ll be good for you. It will make it easy to understand this story. As David C. McCullough said: “History is a guide to navigation in perilous times. History is who we are and why we are the way we are”. Who is McCullough? The guy who made the statement, dude. That’s all you need to know at this stage.
To read Part I and II of the story, search for it on my blog:
(http://prakashsubbarao.blogspot.com).
Those who have read Part 1 & II and forgotten it, go back and re-read it. Do not pass GO, do not collect $200.
Those who remember it with clarity, uncomfortable or otherwise, read on………………..
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The cast so far:
Me
My wife: Sarita
My friend: Probir
His wife: Malini
His sister: Rani
The action is taking place circa 1986.
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There I am, one day, doing what I have to do at work. The time is 5 pm. For some strange reason I remember the time with great clarity. The phone rings. I pick up. I here someone whistling at the other end of the line. I am nonplussed. “Hello” I say. “Hi! This is Rani” a disembodied voice says at the other end of the line. “You asked me to whistle if I needed your help. I am whistling now. I desperately need your help”.
Memories start swirling in my brain. I remember the cool reception that I initially got from her. I remember the distant way she acted as “mum” at my daughter’s school at the time of admission when I needed a “wife” – she was distant with me but she charmed the principal and the staff! I remember the way we took off to have a drink when we were supposed to attend a wedding and how we blamed it on a punctured tyre. The memories come rushing back.
“What has happened, Rani” I ask, alarmed. There is a silence at the other end of the line. After some time I can hear the sounds of her sobbing. “When can you come to
“When would you like me to come?” I ask. “Will the weekend be OK”.
“No” she says. “That will be too late. Can you come tomorrow?”
Too late? Too late for what? I wonder…..
“OK” I tell her. “I’ll be there tomorrow”
I was on the early morning flight to
“Where are you staying?” she asked.
“Room 804 at the Taj Residency” I replied.
“I will be there in an hour” she said and hung up.
An hour later I heard a knock on the door. It was her.
She looked very harried and had dark circles under her eyes. She took out a packet of cigarettes and nervously lit one. Taking a deep drag, she looked at me with very pained eyes and said “I am in deep trouble”.
“What happened?” I asked her.
“Humph!” she snorted. “What happened? Nothing much happened! That fool of a father of mine suddenly remembered one day, some time ago that he has a friend in RAW. You know what RAW is, don’t you?” she asked.
“Yes, I know about it" I replied. “Go on”.
“My father phoned this friend, who is in
A few days later this person, Raj, was in
She nervously took another long drag on the cigarette. The ash fell to the floor but neither of us noticed.
“He was staying at the
I was feeling wretched. I fought him and managed to get away. “Think about it” he said. “I can do what you want. I want a little something in return. It will be very easy. Trust me”.
“I have to think about it” I told him.
“Don’t take too long! I came to
“When is that?” I asked.
“Today” she said. She looked at her watch. “In an hour from now”.
“OK” I told her briskly with a confidence that I didn’t feel. “Leave it to me. Go home and I will handle it. Don’t go to his cottage, whatever happens. OK?”
She nodded numbly. “What will you do?” she suddenly asked. “He is very powerful. Very dangerous. He can harm you”.
“Don’t worry about that” I told her.
After a cup of coffee she left. I could see a renewed sense of hope in her.
I brooded for a while. On an impulse I picked up the phone and dialled the number of the Taj West End. “Cottage 616 please” I told the operator. “One moment Sir” she said. A second later a very deep voice said “Hello!”
“Raj?” I asked.
“Yeah” the voice boomed.
“Raj, you are under surveillance” I said.
He didn’t appear fazed. “By whom?” he asked.
I just hung up.
That evening, at about 6 p.m. I got a call from Rani. “I want to meet you” was all she said. “Let’s go and have a drink”.
“OK” I said. I remembered vividly the last time that we had had a drink. This time I hoped she wouldn’t cry.
She was late and I waited for her at a pre-arranged spot. Soon I saw her drawing up in an auto. She paid off the auto driver and turned to me. Her eyes were wide as saucers and she was smiling from ear to ear. “What did you tell him?” she demanded.
“Who?” I asked, pretending not to understand.
“”Raj, you idiot!” she said, playfully punching me in the stomach.
“Nothing why?” I said.
“Because he’s on the run. He checked out from
“I told him “Raj, you’re under surveillance.”
“That’s all?” she asked incredulously.
“That’s all, Rani” I said. “Such people have a lot to hide. There was nothing else that I could think about so I just impulsively called him”.
Her eyes were sparkling. She was laughing. The world seemed so far away………………..
A few days later Raj delivered on his promise. Her husband, the IAS officer, agreed to a divorce.
A few months later, she was free of the marriage.
Her cousin Prasad flew down from the
Rani and Prasad were married a little later. She soon left
That was way back in the 1986.
We never met again.
It is fourteen years later that I am writing this narrative. Strangely I have a sixth sense that I will run into her someday. I visualize it happening at a marriage of a mutual friend.
She will have her daughter with her. Not a son. A daughter. And she will tell the daughter “Say Hi to my old friend Uncle Prakash”.
And our eyes will exchange a secret message and smile.



